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The founder didn’t grow up saying, “When I’m older, I want to work with death.”
There was no master plan. No checklist. No pivot spreadsheet.
Just life, clearing its throat and saying, “Hey. Over here.”

When COVID shut the world down, the work they’d built in theater, consulting, and live events disappeared overnight. One minute: cues, scripts, and schedules. The next: sweatpants and existential questions. The silence was unsettling—like a theater after the audience has gone home.

Then a friend called. Her mother had died, and her family was scattered across the globe.
“Could you stream the funeral?” she asked.

The founder said yes—thinking it was a one-time kindness. A technical assist. A decent human thing to do.
Spoiler alert: it was not one time.

That first service led to another… and another… and then suddenly this was a thing. Funerals in chapels, at gravesides, under tents powered by generators, and across screens connecting loved ones from every time zone imaginable. There were military honors with 21‑gun salutes, intimate moments with grandchildren singing, and fully virtual services where the chat box quietly became a place for tears, memories, and love.

Between 2020 and 2022, the founder helped facilitate more than 500 funerals and life celebrations. Which sounds impressive, but that was never the point. The point was presence. Showing up. Helping people feel less alone during moments when everything feels upside down.

The real surprise? None of this felt strange.

Long before livestreams and lapel mics, the groundwork had already been laid in honest, sometimes awkward, often meaningful conversations with their mother—about death, about wishes, about what really matters at the end. When some of those wishes weren’t fully honored, the pain that followed turned into a quiet promise: Be the person who listens. Ask the questions people avoid. Help families slow down long enough to actually hear one another. Not to fix. Not to judge. Just to care, clarify, and advocate when it matters most.

Today, the founder brings that same approach to their work as an end‑of‑life doula—with empathy, curiosity, and a well‑timed sense of humor when it helps take the edge off. Because even at the end, there can be warmth. There can be laughter. There can be moments that feel unexpectedly human and real.

Death, after all, isn’t just an ending. It’s a moment of truth. A chance to show up. To listen. To love.

And sometimes, the path we never planned—the one that starts with a simple “yes”—turns out to be exactly where we were meant to land.